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  1. JustSayYes

    JustSayYes Porn Surfer

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    When my husband and I got together he knew I had other play partners and he said he was okay with it. We’ve been together 10 years and I feel like he’s totally shut off that part of my life. We’ve had some group situations and other solo partners, but I feel like it’s gotten harder and harder. Now when I ask for permission to play it becomes a big fight.
    Has anyone else been through this? Can we get past it?
     
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    1. majorripples81
      Did you tell him that you wanted to go out and play by yourself, or did you ask him to take you out and get you some stray dick?
       
      majorripples81, Feb 19, 2024
    2. gorillaJ
      Unfortunately your choices might be to leave him n find someone more compatible with you or do it behind his back ,
       
      gorillaJ, Feb 19, 2024
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    3. PrettyToes
      Sometimes sacrifice is necessary for growth, if he is not comfortable with your lifestyle anymore there are two options before you. Either you understand that he has changed, and out of respect and love for him, you make the sacrifice to give up your extracurricular activities. Or you can selfishly dispose of ten years of marriage, leave and ultimately divorce him so you can continued to get fucked as you desire.
       
      PrettyToes, Feb 19, 2024
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  2. JustSayYes

    JustSayYes Porn Surfer

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    I know this is posted it the wrong place, I don’t know how to fix it
     
    1. maturemanners
      I don't see a problem with where you posted this.
       
      maturemanners, Feb 19, 2024
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  3. Ondrae74

    Ondrae74 Porn Star

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    My husband (ex now)pushed me into it and now all he wants to do is watch and shoot videos. I have to admit I love him watching and the camera just brings out the animal in me.
     
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  4. Bastian_D

    Bastian_D Porn Surfer

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    Was it something that originally turned him on or did he tolerate it because it was something you were already doing when you met?

    From my experience, it is hard to get past something like that if interests don't align and there is low willingness to adjust to each others needs. That being said, the most important part is talking to each other and being honest about what is important to you. Have you tried sharing with him why you want to meet others and understanding what he may or may not be ok with and why? This may help find a common denominator, or perhaps, a way to do it together that aligns with his interests too. Also sometimes the reason is something less obvious that is easier to address onces you know a about it. Good luck and let us know how things turn out!
     
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    1. notdescriptive
      Great advice!
       
      notdescriptive, Feb 19, 2024
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  5. Ginger_slutty

    Ginger_slutty Happy Harlot

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    There are the obvious options…. Fix it, stay as is, or go.
     
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  6. SoloKim

    SoloKim Porn Star

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    I married an exciting and fun man who turned into a lazy self-centered person.
    If you can't adjust to having a happy mutual life together then it is time to move on.
     
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      Thank you for your honest response. I guess having common interests is key, as is listening to each other desires. I know this is easily said than done and sometimes it is just not meant to be!

      Glad to hear you manage to remain close for the family.
       
      Bastian_D, Feb 20, 2024
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  7. Bastian_D

    Bastian_D Porn Surfer

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    Edited post. Was meant to comment on the above.
     
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  8. Kenrychard

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    Not quite same situation but similar enough. Your answer can only come from him and he may not even care to talk if he has already stopped caring about sex, his libido and your sexuality. But I can give a couple of guesses. First.. accepting someone else's lifestyle and letting it continue. If he was making an emotional sacrifice at the time to make the relationship move on but didn't like it, that can become a burden over time. And how can he speak up if he said OK originally? He may have a bunch of emotional garbage all locked up and feel like he can't gripe or share because it was his choice in the first place. And then he acts out his gripes by his changed attitudes. we aren't always rational. I did my own share of "not telling my wife" because I hadn't spoken up originally. Then feeling all shitty and with it bottled up I got angry and was taking it out on the whole family with a bad attitude and no explanation.
    Without his honest input you are kind of screwed.
     
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  9. JustSayYes

    JustSayYes Porn Surfer

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    I think it’s just hard because he tells me that it’s always fine to ask, and that he’s still into it. Then I ask and he says no. But he’s hooked up with people without asking me first and then he tells me after and I’m totally cool. It honestly only the double standard that bothers me. It just needs to go both ways.

    In the end I just want to have some fun. It’s not some big piece of my life I’d feel empty without. I think he’s not being honest with himself about what he wants.
     
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    1. Bastian_D
      Have you told him how you feel when he hooks up but makes you feel uncomfortable when you ask? Or do you think he may do this as a way to see if you get jealous?
       
      Bastian_D, Feb 20, 2024
    2. Bk8218
      We both need to fuck each other and they can both deal with it
       
      Bk8218, Jun 14, 2024
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  10. Sarah L. Q.

    Sarah L. Q. Porn Star

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    For every woman the decision should be hers
     
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  11. Sully48

    Sully48 Porn Surfer

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    Hello there it's a sexy couple here and it's funny you guys are exactly opposite I love to watch him destroy other women with his big 10 in it turns me on so much. Do you think you can handle that down your throat I love to watch you try Screenshot_20240205-234104-886~3.png
     
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    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      Nice way to try to derail the original post. Eedjits
       
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  12. Bk8218

    Bk8218 Porn Star

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    I know I’d love a chance to bury my face and cock in your big beautiful round ass
     
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  13. kipper101

    kipper101 Sex Machine

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    Me and my wife barely do anything. Havnt had sex in best part of 2 years even though i keep trying different things. Its now getting to the point i would cheat without her knowing just to satisfy my needs.....
     
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    1. Kenrychard
      If she hasn't agreed to discuss with you, see a doctor or a counselor, then she has broken the marriage agreement. She has removed a vital part of marriage unilaterally, with no say or discussion with you. Not condoning cheating, but when you face that choice don't take all the blame. And then if you do choose to stay faithful, at least it was your choice.
       
      Kenrychard, Feb 21, 2024
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      After 30 years of unlimited sex my wife started to lose interest, l had difficulty accepting it as slowly it dwindled to nothing. It took five years to stop completely but then other problems started, we had to consult a doctor and after many tests they diagnosed dementia.
       
      Mounton, Feb 21, 2024
    3. notdescriptive
      To Mounton: Sorry to read of the dementia diagnosis. I've wondered why couples stop having sex after enjoying sex for many years. It seems like an action, a decision, that is puzzling. In your situation I can understand (though I've had no interactions with anyone who has dementia). I hope life goes as easy as possible for you and your wife.
       
      notdescriptive, Feb 21, 2024
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  14. moonshae

    moonshae Sex Lover

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    no is no. so you cant play.. no offense....Waaaah.
     
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  15. Sully48

    Sully48 Porn Surfer

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    Hi there we want to play 20220303_115818.jpg 20220303_115818.jpg Me and my hubby. I want to watch him destroy your mouth aand and tight little pussy
    Screenshot_20240208-135352-156~2.png
     
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      Eedjit - go on down to Personals.
       
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  16. Sully48

    Sully48 Porn Surfer

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    Screenshot_20240207-104012-606~2.png 20220303_115818.jpg Sounds to me like we need to tie your husband up in a chair in the corner and make him watch as I open the door for my husband and pull him into the room pull out his big nine and a half inch cock I'm going to force it down your throat 20220303_115818.jpg Screenshot_20240207-104012-606~2.png
     
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      Eedjits
       
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  17. Sully48

    Sully48 Porn Surfer

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    What you don't think you could handle that?
     
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  18. WantSumCandyLittleGirl

    WantSumCandyLittleGirl Candyman

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    That’s a major double standard. Sit him down and get him to explain why it’s ok for him but not for you. Don’t get up until he does.
     
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  19. Jerryl63

    Jerryl63 Porn Star

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    Well if he won’t give in I guess you just do it on your own or leave the relationship
     
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